I had no problem at the time with this, if it gave my mom a sense of safeness for me then I figured it was OK.
I am reluctant to suggest that you recommend to and for her because I am concerned that this will backfire and she will get angry with you.
The problem is that you are the daughter and she is the mother.
Your mother appears to treat you like someone who should be taking care of her needs.
My intention is to continue to work toward uncovering what brings me and solace.
I am sent to my room to get the braids out of my hair.