She does not like being looked down upon or told what to do as she wants to be viewed as an adult and be praised for her piloting skills.
So those two sentences basically say the same thing unclear vs will change.
Asuka feels empathy toward her as she sees her fingers wounded due to the cooking, and as she leaves the lift, Asuka asks Rei whether she likes Shinji.
It morphs into a naughty tentacle and plunges into Unit 00, whom Rei is linked with, then proceeds to invade her body.
However, Asuka refuses, claiming he is only using her as an escape.