Welcome to hundreds of them.
If it is an innate evolutionary tactic for a woman to find the strongest and most confident man who can financially support her, then an older man comes out on top every time.
Women do not want to date a man who would rather play computer games then spend time with her.
They marry for love.
Love Her the Way She Is Do not try to change her personality.
The days of starting from the scratch are fast fading because most men are not loyal.