For guys, it offers an incredible view and control over the speed and depth of penetration, says , creator and host of the podcast Sex with Emily who has a doctorate in human sexuality.
Needless to say, this isn't the easiest position to get into.
Have your partner lie on top of you with his legs outside of yours as he enters you from behind.
Their penis or toy will still be able to stimulate your or.
Last medically reviewed on August 9, 2019.
To dial things back, take off your clothes, lie face-down on the bed, and have him give you a slow, steady back massage, using his fingers to caress your shoulders, small of the back, even your buttocks.