I feel really depressed about this traumatic situation.
Maybe this will help: Like a lot of gay men, I had sex with a woman before I came out.
Be a man about this—be a straight man about this—and walk it off, as the football coaches say.
A distinguishing feature of hers is her paperclip earrings.
Yet discussions of throupledom all seem to begin with the assumption that coupledom is a self-evidently more stable arrangement.
Lots of pros and cons, just curious how it plays out.